I’ve been dreaming of the day when I could sit down and write this post. But I’ve also been thinking a lot about pregnancy announcements this time around because I’m more aware of how many people hurt when they see them. The list of people I know who are struggling with infertility or who have had a miscarriage is getting longer every year. If that’s one of you, just know that I’m thinking about you as I write this.
Emerson’s going to be a big sister! I looked back on my last pregnancy announcement post and just laughed. I am doing the very important work of snacking, but there hasn’t been so much sitting on the couch this time around. Having morning sickness with a toddler put me in survival mode for the first trimester. I am so thankful to be feeling better and eating normal food again. I felt exactly the same as last time with a horrible taste in my month, food aversions, and nausea, but this time the tiredness and aches were much worse (and the bump was instant). I can’t tell you how many times I thought to myself, if I can’t even handle being pregnant with a toddler, how will I handle having a new baby with a toddler? Daniel Tiger, Green Piñata Toys, new library books, and preschool have helped keep Emerson entertained.
I’m feeling overwhelmed with gratitude and appreciative of the chance to slow down a bit. And you know what’s crazy? This baby has the exact same due date as Emerson: October 1!
Kath
April 10, 2019 at 5:20 pmBirchie is excited for an October cousin! He hopes the baby comes on time or late!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:57 pmWe’ll just need to get one giant sheet cake for October…
Danielle
April 10, 2019 at 5:29 pmCongrats! Crazy about having the same due date. I’m due with #2 in a few weeks so I can definitely relate about having a toddler and getting through the first trimester. Hope the rest of pregnancy is smooth sailing
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:57 pmThank you. Hope your delivery is easy:)
Melissa
April 10, 2019 at 5:40 pmYay, congratulations!
In my experience the fatigue of pregnancy is MUCH harder than the tiredness of a baby. I bet you’ll feel much more capable of keeping up with Emerson with a baby than with the bump.
Exciting news!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:56 pmI hope so! Thanks!
emily
April 10, 2019 at 5:50 pmThis is the most tactful pregnancy announcement ive seen yet. incredibly classy of you to acknowledge that other women might have mixed emotions hearing about a friend or loved one’s pregnancy. i really appreciate this. congratulations to you and your beautiful family.
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:56 pmThank you! I felt a little jealous when seeing people’s announcements after like one month of trying, so I can’t imagine how hard it must be:(
Logan
April 12, 2019 at 6:18 pmCongrats! I’m in the midst of IVF (after 2.5 years of trying) and really appreciated what you said. I’m happy for other people, but I won’t pretend like the constant baby announcements aren’t hard. Your acknowledgment of others struggles is very kind.
Laura
April 12, 2019 at 6:22 pmThat’s got to be so hard:( Fingers crossed it’s successful!!
Joan
April 10, 2019 at 6:16 pmCongratulations and very nice and caring announcement, well done
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:53 pmThanks!
Mom
April 10, 2019 at 8:10 pmLovely announcement and we can’t wait to meet baby!
Andrea
April 10, 2019 at 9:14 pmCongratulations!!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:53 pmThanks!
Jordan
April 10, 2019 at 9:48 pmCongratulations! I have a 2.5 year old and a 6 month old. It’s definitely a lot having a baby with a toddler but honestly I found going from 0 to 1 kids was much harder than going from 1 to 2. Just my 2 cents because I heard lots of horror stories about two so wanted to share my experience 🙂 Plus seeing them together makes it all worth it!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:52 pmI’m so excited to see them together!
Patricia
April 10, 2019 at 10:07 pmI agree, Jordan. Adding the first child totally altered our routine/lifestyle, even though our child was so wanted. It was just an adjustment I hadn’t really anticipated. The second (and subsequent) were so much easier. We already had our routine established. The new ones just fit in. I also knew that the new baby’s needs did not have to be met immediately if the older child needed me at the moment or I had to get something out of the oven, for instance. Plus the older child loved helping and was great at entertaining the baby. Twice the fun, for sure.
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:52 pmThat’s a good point – I think Em will love helping!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 10:35 amCongratulations! I actually randomly wondered the other day if you were pregnant!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:52 pmhaha, yup!
Jessica
April 11, 2019 at 10:53 amCongratulations! Having suffered from terrible morning sickness while I had a three year old, I actually found that life with newborn + now almost 4 y/o is easier than being sick every single day and trying to entertain a young child. You will do just fine!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:51 pmI hope so – a couple of others have said this too, so I feel better!
Tracy
April 11, 2019 at 12:04 pmSuch happy news! Congratulations to you and your growing family 🙂
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:50 pmThank you!
Jennifer
April 11, 2019 at 12:58 pmCongratulations! That’s wonderful news. How cool that their due date is the same.
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:50 pmThanks!
Kate
April 11, 2019 at 1:07 pmExciting news! Too funny, I am pregnant with my second and the due date is also the same as with my first (Due in August). Totally feel you on the exhaustion this time around, it’s like no other! Congratulations to your family!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:50 pmOh wow! crazy, right? Congrats!
Taryn
April 11, 2019 at 1:31 pmCongrats! My kids are 2 years 1 week apart. It’s crazy busy at first, but now at 5 and 7 they are the best of friends and can play together very well. Hoping your energy levels return. Chasing around a toddler while pregnant is no joke!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:49 pmThank you!
Jen
April 11, 2019 at 3:06 pmCongrats!! My first two are 27 months apart, and I didn’t know how we would ever survive. Those kids are now 16 and 14 and it’s all a blur!!
Laura
April 11, 2019 at 4:49 pmHaha, thanks:)
Colleen
April 12, 2019 at 6:24 amGreat, thoughtful announcement! Three years will be a great age gap!
Andie
April 12, 2019 at 7:03 amCongratulations to you and your family!
Laura
April 12, 2019 at 2:24 pmThanks!
Alex
April 12, 2019 at 12:29 pmWe have a three year age gap, and it’s great. Our hope was that by the time the baby turned one and was toddling around and into the big kid’s toys, the big kid would be four and old enough to (kind of) understand. We’re now at 18mos and 4.5, and they get along like a dream most of the time. I read somewhere that going from 0 to 1 overhauls your life, but when you go from 1 to 2 you’ve already paid the price of admission (what’s a lazy Sunday morning? Where did all these toys come from??) so it’s just more passengers on the fun ride, and that’s definitely been true for us. It’s hard, but doable. Enjoy!
Laura
April 12, 2019 at 2:23 pmhaha, love the analogy. Thanks!
Melissa
April 12, 2019 at 1:50 pmCongratulations to your family Laura! Glad you’re feeling better and hope the rest of the pregnancy goes well. Emerson must be excited!
Laura
April 12, 2019 at 2:24 pmThanks you – she is pumped!
Carla
April 12, 2019 at 4:23 pmCongratulations! And funny because we’re due with our second and the due date is October 1, too!
Laura
April 12, 2019 at 6:20 pmHaha, congrats!!
Amy
April 13, 2019 at 8:51 amMy kids are three years apart too! The transition from one to two was tough but definitely not as shocking as having your first newborn. Much of the toughness was due to some jealously of my little girl to the baby :/ We did everything we could to ease her and make her feel special but it is still a shock to their little worlds. Oh and my energy bounced back and I had wayyyyy more energy with two kids than I did pregnant with a toddler. 🙂
Laura
April 13, 2019 at 2:28 pmSo good to hear that your energy came back! Definitely worried about the jealousy issues…
Ruthie
April 15, 2019 at 1:09 pmCongratulations to you and your precious family!
Enjoy your days with Emerson and Matt.
October will be here before you know it!
Truly, you are one of the most thoughtful bloggers I have seen online.
What a sensitive and considerate way to share your fantastic news!
Laura
April 15, 2019 at 2:46 pmThank you – that’s so nice to hear:)
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April 15, 2019 at 7:06 pmCongrats and also echo the comments of how sensitive you are about acknowledging others’ infertility. AND I share a birthday with my sister. It has had good and bad moments….growing up it always seemed to be a juggle of sharing a party, doing it on different days, etc. now that we are older, and she has had health issues, it makes it special best to you and your family
Susan
May 8, 2019 at 9:04 amCongratulations! Dwight & I are so pleased that you’ll be having another girl. Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy and delivery!
Laura
May 9, 2019 at 3:25 pmThank you!